REPRESENTATION-ENHANCED PSYCHOTHERAPY
Barry Bricklin, Ph.D.
Rev. 10/9/03
PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS IS AN OUTLINE I GIVE TO MY CLIENTS AND PATIENTS. IT CANNOT BE USED BY ITSELF AS A GUIDE FOR PSYCHOLOGICAL TREATMENT. THOSE INTERESTED IN THE PSYCHOLOGICAL AND NEUROLOGICAL FOUNDATIONS OF THIS WORK CAN CALL THE AUTHOR AT (610) 688-5502.
REPRESENTATION-ENHANCED PSYCHOTHERAPY or (REP) gets its name from the fact that in paying heed to the latest neurological research, it utilizes the information-carrying potential of all of our sensory systems (eyes, ears, muscles, and even tastes, smells, and so forth) rather than focusing primarily on the information-carrying potential of words (predominately, but not exclusively, derived from auditory data), as do most psychotherapies.
REP, like all psychotherapies, attempts to access an individual’s most highly developed psychological assets, for example, the mental/physiological states of patience, courage, creativity, fresh perspectives and so forth, and then subject that person’s liabilities, for example, stress, depression, procrastination and such, to a review by the psychobiological states that create the assets. The purpose is to generate many more comfortable and effective ways to deal with the negatives. Technically, all psychotherapies seek to expand the mental/physical categories with which a person perceives, acts upon and hence experiences the objects and events in his or her life. The more ways one has to experience or interpret one’s reality, the greater will be one’s range of options not only in experiencing the world, but in behaving in that world with effectiveness and feelings of comfort.
The expanded range of behavioral and experiential options moderate or dampen what in effect is the essence of all mental impairments or stuck-points, the limited choices humans have, caused both by learned and genetic/evolutionary forces, to respond with a limited range of behaviors to what is perceived as “dangerous.” And, unfortunately, humans have a tendency to overestimate danger. This is, at least in large part, the result of a “first-response” or primary evaluating system that assesses all incoming data (one is a quick system operating out of awareness; the other a slightly longer and somewhat “conscious” one) in only two basic categories: safe or dangerous. Since few things can be rapidly judged to be totally safe, we all overestimate danger. The tendency to overestimate dangerousness seems to be a result of evolutionary forces that favor such estimations. When one stops to think about it, early humans had little need for a category called “Maybe this is dangerous,” for example,“Gee, that tiger looks happy and content; I don’t think he’ll bother me.” False negatives—predictions that conclude an entity or situation is not dangerous when it really is—obviously have less survival value than false positives, the tendency to conclude something is dangerous when it really isn’t. Remember, these systems had to operate very quickly. (An early human did not have the luxury to operate as follows: “That tiger is running after me; I’ll think about what to do for an hour or two.”)
All of the above follows from the fact that first and foremost we are survival machines. Since it appears that survival of our species is seen as a higher priority than our individual comfort levels (by God and/or any other organizing principle), many of these mechanisms work in ways that cause discomfort. (Part of this probably stems from the fact that in early evolution the entities that developed these survival mechanisms did not experience them as dysphoric: they had very little brain cortex with which to “interpret” their bodily sensations. The less we can interpret our body sensations, the less we can catastrophize about them, and hence the less the subjective discomfort.)
The basic evaluating that humans (quickly) carry out in regards to things and events in their (inner and) outer environments leads to the human’s three basic, motor-expressed, dispositions: to move toward things, away from them, or against them. (Neurosis is created by conflicts among these movements.)
Of these three dispositions, the tendency to move toward things is, by far, the most pleasant. Movements “toward” are accompanied by the most positive emotions. The things that we would commonly be predisposed to move toward are water, food, sex partners, thermal comfort and much later in evolution, great works of beauty and art. (In nature, pleasing symmetries, which are the mainstay of great art [in spite of Baroque and Rococo influences] signify health, a genetic advantage.)
The tendency to move away from, exemplified by the tendency to move away from things that are perceived as dangerous, are usually accompanied by negative emotions. The tendency to move against things, to attack them, would be accompanied by such mind/body states as anger and rage. (In truth, early humans probably didn’t move against too many things, since early humans, acting alone or without a weapon, could not defeat much of anything, even a dyspeptic squirrel.) The human dilemma arises from a timing factor. Most things toward which we move in a positive direction are not bound by a severe time limitation. Early humans had no need to search for air. One could search for water over many, many days without any immediate threat to survival. Food and sexual partners could be sought at relative leisure. The same is not true about things that we must move away from. Such things, predators, for example, can kill us very quickly. Hence the human tendency to conclude danger, accompanied by negative emotions, occurs exceedingly quickly, often outside of realms of awareness.
The psychotherapeutic technique about which we will soon speak, seeks to move people quickly out of negative states. I do not see any way that even the most healthy of humans can avoid negative emotional states. There is simply too much evolution and biology prompting quickly occurring negative emotions. I think the best we can hope for is to develop ways to move out of negative states as quickly as is “humanly” possible.
One can see this illustrated in the following vignette. Two employees are working on a problem. The boss walks in and yells at the two of them: “This is no good at all! This is not a good piece of work. I am not happy with what you two are doing!” Both experience anger, hurt and embarrassment.
Now let us move our camera ahead one hour. Let us assume that one of the employees is “neurotic,” and the other relatively healthy. After the hour goes by, the relatively healthy person is immersed in working further on the problem and trying to bring it to a successful solution. Inside the neurotic’s head this is what is going on: “That son of a bitch! He had no right to talk to me like that. Who the hell does he think he is etc., etc., etc.” This inner catastrophizing may continue for hours, days, or even weeks and months for those of us who are really expert at being neurotic.
This is essentially the difference between people who are neurotic and people who at least are relatively healthy. The latter can more easily let go of or find a way out of negative states. People who become labeled “neurotic” are those who get trapped in negative states and find it difficult to move out of them.
Let us now return to the main theme of which we were speaking. This is the theme that states the goal of psychotherapy is to create more mental/physical categories with which to perceive, act upon and hence experience our world. All of this is some variation of what is called multiple-perspective-taking.
If we expressed a multiple-perspective process in visual terms we would say the goal is to gain “new perspectives” about our upsetting and/or conflicted impairments. If we cast the description in visual/auditory forms we would say the purpose is to “reframe” the negative data. Here is a much simplified example of “reframing.” Suppose someone says he’s very afraid of his boss. Somehow this man views his boss as threatening and “dangerous.” A therapist might say: “Well, angry, screaming people are usually hurt about something or scared or feel impotent, as though if they spoke politely no one would listen and they would then feel weak and powerless.” There is now a chance that the man who is afraid of his boss will switch or “reframe” his perception of his boss so that he, the once-afraid man, will no longer “see” a threatening and dangerous boss, but rather one who feels scared, hurt, weak, or impotent. So “reframing” really denotes a change in perception, which brings a change in emotional experience. The therapeutic challenge comes in with the fact that most people cannot easily “talk” or “reason” themselves into reframing negative data. REP, however, does this automatically and largely out of the realm of awareness. Most importantly, REP takes advantage of the latest neurological research that is relevant to the ability to reframe negative psychological states. If we expressed “reframing” in purely physiological terms we would say our purpose is “to create new (and ultimately more behaviorally resourceful) neural sequences within the brain.” The 5-step REP process aims to achieve these goals by using multiple sensory channels at various levels of abstraction to represent the key psychobiologic elements that promote positive transformations. Neurological research strongly suggests that the more sensory channels we use to represent our goals and assets as well as our conflicts, and the more we alternate among these channels (for example, from words to images to anatomic-muscular movements), the more we enhance our ability to stimulate neuronal growth and create new synaptic connections. These neuronal growth patterns provide the brain-tissue infrastructures that lead to new ways to interpret, act upon and experience our worlds. REP will create many more ways for you to look at, think about and feel about things in your world that previously were the sources of conflict, ineffectiveness and discomfort. Expanded categories of experience will create a new range of options. And all of this can be accomplished by using what is popularly called one’s “willpower.” This is not to say one can simply “will” oneself at any single moment into “health” (REP is an iterative process) but rather that the REP procedure uses concrete and do-able exercises that can be executed under the direction of one’s willpower.
Note that the REP goal is not necessarily to change “unpleasant” perceptions into “pleasant” ones (although this is frequently the result of REP use). The goal is to create new and diverse perceptions at various levels of abstraction. Hence the aim is really to develop a larger biopsychological “toolbox,” one that yields a greatly expanded range of perceptions and behavioral options. This allows a person to face each and every lifetime occurrence (person, event, situation) with the potential to have available, for any particular occurrence, the optimal blend of psychological resources (alertness, creativity, emotional warmth, emotional indifference, patience, courage, confidence). An expanded toolbox maximizes the attainment of comfort and efficiency.
One REP aim is to bring added resources to “state-bound” sequences of behavior. Such sequences are repetitive, nonadaptive and painful, usually the result of trauma-encoded experiences that stay “frozen” in “areas” of the “mind,” such that it is difficult to attach more comfortable and effective behaviors to them. We refer to this type of research as SOA, for “state of arousal,” research. It has to do with the challenge of attaching new and better sequences of behavior to trauma-encoded SOAs. The SOA you are in at any moment determines the number and types of skills, talents and resources that will be available for behaviorial utilization. All therapeutic techniques, in one way or another, aim to make available a greater number of ways a person can respond to situations that previously aroused negative emotions. REP aims to do this regardless of the source of the challenge, whether internal or external, that is, whether or not the challenge is created by bad chemistry, irrational self-defeating ideas, a nagging guilt-ridden conscience or a screaming boss or spouse.
The
advantages gained by having a wider range of categories with which to register
your experiences can be easily illustrated.
If one lives in a world in which one
can either succeed or fail, (and note that we react to “failure”
psychobiologically in almost the same way as we react to danger), then anything
that is not an outright success will be experienced as a failure. The feelings that accompany failure probably
stem from the following psychobiologic evolutionary trail. Closest to the surface would be the belief
that failure elicits disdain, rejection and contempt from others. Along with this, a drop in self-approval
occurs. At deeper or more primary
levels is the fear of being excluded from the “tribe,” a death sentence among
early humans, and at the deepest “cosmic” level a fear of being kicked out—or
having to drop out—of the gene pool.
This “exclusion conclusion” stems from the felt-experience of a
fight-flight paralysis, and represents one of the deepest fears humans can
harbor, the fear of being paralyzed physically and psychologically, unable to
move or function. If a person learns to
see and respond to degrees of success
and/or degrees of intermediate
outcomes and degrees of failure there
is already an enhanced capacity for more effective and comfortable
behaviors. Again, the therapeutic
challenge is that while people can understand this “intellectually,” it is an
altogether different challenge to “wire in” an expanded range of perceptions
and behavioral patterns, since it is necessary to build the required neural circuitry to accommodate or permit the
expanded range of options.
Technically, the expanded
neural circuitry is the expanded
range of options. In another area, if
all one can do is get angry or retreat (or else become “frozen” and passive, a
state among the genetically programmed fight-flight limited range of choices),
then most situations in modern civilized society will create anxiety and
tension. These fight/flight choices are
insufficient to cope with the wide range of issues that one deals with in the
modern world, which is interpreted by far more brain circuitry (cortex
material) than was available to our ancestors.
In other words, the complexity of the modern world is not only due to
what’s “out there,” but also due to the more complex neural circuitry that not
only created what is “out there” but also then goes on to “interpret” what is
“out there.” Whereas in prehistoric
times, killing things, running from them, or becoming temporarily paralyzed,
and hence staving off predators, probably provided enough choices, modern life,
depending as it does on the newly developing frontal cortex, requires effective
negotiation. The problem is that the
frontal cortex which is able to make a lot of fine distinctions, for example,
annoyed, aggravated, frustrated, embarrassed, humiliated, and so forth, is wired
to an emotional-interpretive system that all-too-frequently makes only two
distinctions. As noted, the first and
strongest distinction is: “Is this situation safe or dangerous?” If the choice is dangerous, the fight-flight
response kicks in almost instantly and the person (i.e., you) usually ends up
feeling trapped (unless there is something directly in front of you to kill or
run away from). If any aspect of your
sensory channels, particularly if this happens to be part of the motor
system—especially the facial muscles—communicates “danger,” however
intentionally or unintentionally this may happen, there is an immediate
shrinkage in the number of behaviors available for use. (A situation in early evolution that
triggered the fight-flight reaction was definitely not a situation that called
for sustained, passive, contemplative behaviors.) For example, when you are yelling at someone, the main message
your deep-inner mind (defined later) receives is not just that you are angry,
but more seriously for you (and your body chemistry), that you are in imminent danger.
This message then evokes some variant of the fight-flight response, that
is, anger, rage, psychological paralysis (often experienced as depression or
anxiety), or “running away” behavior.
Most
psychotherapies, in their aim to de- then re-construct or reframe or bring
“insight” to their patients, do so by using and teaching their patients to use
auditory data (“words”), or sometimes visual data (“mental images”). REP adds other sensory channels to this
list. Most people, at a conscious
therapeutic level, send consciously
deliberate messages to the Deep Inner Mind, that part of us that puts
information together and prioritizes it, in either words or images. These are the sensory channels people use in
consciously deliberate ways, the ones people are most aware of. While all sensory channels send information
to the DIM, most of us make conscious use of a limited number of them, usually
words. (However, note that in our
present evolutionary state, it seems that activity in any sensory system elicits activity in many others. REP seeks to optimize the representation of
information by getting full potential from each channel.)
Before saying more about REP, let us take a slight pause to speak about the Deep Inner Mind (we will call it DIM), because it is to that part of the body/mind the techniques you will be using communicate with most directly.
The
DIM interprets and prioritizes incoming sensory information. This informational data may arise within the
body or in the external world. (It is
not really a “part” of the mind, but all of the processes by which the human organism carries out this
function.) Countless “bits” of
information, largely outside of awareness, are somehow brought together and
prioritized in terms of the action sequences judged to be most relevant and
useful for the circumstances, and hence are those most likely to be executed in
actual behavior. Many required
sequences of action are not only processed but executed outside of awareness,
for example, heartbeats, breathing patterns, maintaining body balance, and so
forth, while others reach an awareness level.
These are usually those that require energy-form transductions or
“shifts,” and higher cognitive
input. For example, when you are
driving, you are taking in thousands of pieces of information. The most critical are obviously visual. But if you suddenly hear a loud sound
nearby, you may need to steer your car quickly to the side of a road. In this situation, you shifted auditory
data, hearing the loud sound, into a visual-kinesthetic behavior, turning your
wheel and visually guiding it to the side.
The higher cognitive functioning came in with your “decision” that the
auditory data could not be ignored, like would have been the case if you were
near an airport and the loud noise was interpreted as caused by overhead jet
engines rather than a car or truck either bearing in on you or sounding its
horn. (Actually, we now know that
incoming sensory information is assessed for “dangerousness” by two separate pathways,
one of which features very rapid assessment—this pathway does not reach
awareness, the higher cortical centers—and a slower process more amenable to
awareness and therapeutic input.)
It
is important that you understand that the 5-step process continually feeds
information into your Deep Inner Mind (the prioritizing functions) and not necessarily directly into your
“awareness.” In other words, it
will be a rare occasion when use of the 5-step process leads to awareness which
can co-create immediate results. Your
awareness will, however, gradually be involved, as the new choices made
available by the 5-step become, so to speak, “wired-in” and ready for use in
the real world.
Returning to our prior
point, REP deliberately uses motor and other sensory data in addition to words,
to send information to the Deep Inner Mind.
(You are already doing this, that
is, sending other sensory-system messages to your DIM in addition to words, but
not in effective or self-healing ways.
More likely–almost certainly–you are unknowingly sending self-hurtful or
self-defeating messages.) Just as
the eyes send visual information to the DIM, so too can the musculature send
its own kind of information. The
muscles most frequently capitalized upon in REP are the facial muscles. Almost all important interpersonal or
psychological data (at some point in a loop) flow through the facial
muscles. (I will explain this to you,
in person.)
The ultimate aim of any
psychotherapy is to change the properties of a complex psychobiological
system. That is, eventually the
psychotherapeutic techniques must change the ways people think of and store
experiences cognitively, as well as alter how their inner chemical factories
function (or malfunction), as well as a host of other body-oriented systemic
functions. All of these processes
operate as a more or less integrated system.
(The greater the mental and/or physical impairments, the less the
appropriate integration. Inappropriate
integration occurs when certain data are afforded much greater priority than
competent functioning in the real world requires.) REP concentrates or focuses on the alternation and use of
multiple representational systems and not on direct conscious challenges to
irrational belief systems. An example
of an irrational belief would be: “I must be approved of by everyone or else I
am worthless.” Nevertheless, REP-use
will result in the reduction of irrational, deeply held, belief systems. It is these deeply held beliefs that are, so
to speak, a main part of the “hard storage” of pathological behavior
patterns. (Note well, however, that
other systems, for example, muscular and chemical processes, can also encode
and be part of “hard storage” mechanisms. They operate out of awareness in ways
that override and defeat other more rationally encoded information.)
Four of the five steps in
REP aim to access a healing resource, a way of “being,” such that it is
possible to reframe or reconstitute deeply held, negative mind/body
structures. These structures are
usually not only hard to modify, but tend to be very broad-based. They are, so to speak, functioning much like
defining foundations or DOS systems, such that they can control and override
other sources of information. For
example, if at this level your “beliefs” represent the feeling that you are
basically “worthless and hold very little power,” then lectures, advice,
aphorisms, superficial therapy and so forth, will do little to change you. The core foundation systems, unless
modified, will eventually override attempts to help yourself with these
techniques. At a neurological level,
superficial interventions are not effective in creating the circuitry required
to carry the information-flow needed for new behavior to emerge. Superficial therapies are akin to a plumber
who tries to send water appropriately through your house without installing the
pipes that are needed to transport the water.
This is psychologically akin to a person’s knowing he should “relax,”
but not having the neural circuitry available to accomplish the mission.
In
our work together, we will speak of your SOAs.
The state-of-arousal (SOA) dictates the psychological assets that you
will have available at any given time.
REP aims to access your negative SOAs and attach more positive sequences
to them. A SOA is created by complex
interactions between neurochemical reactions in the brain and incoming sensory
information. Its importance to you is
that the SOA you are in at any given moment can drastically limit the
availability of your resources. Such
resources may include the ability to think and behave clearly, comfortably and
effectively. The SOA concept also
explains how and why the 5-step REP can only gradually modify deeply-held
negative body/mind structures, which we will call for shorthand, beliefs. What happens is this: the deeply-held core
beliefs, formed usually when people are very young, become part of almost each
and every SOA in which you function. SOA-formation
is much like brain development. Damage
to a very young brain, which has not yet become highly differentiated, will
have many more dire consequences than would be the case had that damage
occurred later, after the brain has evolved into a multitude of different
systems. So too with a SOA. This is because when you are young,
interpersonal “inputs” can affect the whole of your personality—the sum total
of the very limited number of SOAs available.
As we grow older, the number of SOAs increases, and results in a more
highly differentiated overall structure, just as happens with the brain. As you do the 5-step repeatedly, the core
negative beliefs will eventually be modified in positive directions, because
these negative beliefs have become attached to, or associated with, the huge range
of SOAs that spun-off or developed from the limited few that were initially
traumatized. As each current SOA is
subjected to the potential of the healing REP access codes, the influence of
the core negative beliefs will be “diluted,” replaced by more useful
resources. But note that this is why
time is required for the healing process to occur. You are in one given SOA at any moment (or, at least, very few),
and the healing process may require modifying a significant number of them.
Before giving
the direct instructions of how to use Representation Enhanced-Psychotherapy, I
am going to spell out some of the general principles behind it, since they are
different than was the case when the system focused mainly on facial
expressions and was called Motor-Assisted Psychotherapy. Representation-Enhanced Psychotherapy or REP
capitalizes on several factors in its quest to upgrade the quality of
information available to you. This
upgraded information continually creates new categories with which to process,
act upon and hence experience the world.
(It is an interesting question as to whether one first “experiences”
something and then acts toward this thing, or rather acts toward it prior to
sensing the “experience.” It is likely
that both sequences operate.) With REP, you will be accessing healing mind/body
states in a special way that co-creates them with the use of words, images, and
anatomic-skeletal sensory information and possibly other sensory data. Further, you will be alternating among these
sensory channels as you proceed. So one
important characteristic feature of REP is the shift between words, images,
facial muscles and other sense-data.
Healing or transforming attitudes are
mind/body states that will eventually create a greatly extended range of
awarenesses and behaviors by continually extending the number of categories you
use to register and “understand” your life experiences. In turn, these expanded categories will
extend the range of behavioral options you use to act upon your world. REP constantly seeks to upgrade the quality
of information available to you, whether the information arises internally,
from within your body, or externally, in the outer world. Hence, regardless of where the information
comes from, whether it comes from chemical processes within your body or sensory
input from the external world, the result will be the same: an extended range
of categories into which this information will be categorized, which in turn
leads to a greater range of options available to you. Greater comfort and effectiveness will eventually result from
this extended range of categories.
Neurological Advantages and Information-Carrying Potential
Before giving
the basic instructions, it will be useful for you to understand that the REP
steps take advantage of three factors.
One is to take
advantage of the neurological research suggesting that alternating among
different sensory systems promotes positive neural activity.
The second
advantage is informational. One
information-form advantage operates outside of awareness, the other within
awareness. First, REP will provide
information to your Deep Inner Mind to call up healing states of
awareness. The second informational
advantage is to reveal to your own conscious mind the ways in which you
construct (“define”) your own assets and your own liabilities and/or
problems. This will become clearer as
we give examples of how REP operates.
The third advantage is given later.
You will profit
from the first advantage, that is, the neurological research, without any need
for you to pay attention to how or why this is happening. However you will not profit from the second
advantage, that is, the informational value in how you are constructing and
sending information with your sensory channels, without paying attention to how
you are doing this. Here you would want
to be mindful of what you are saying and imaging and otherwise portraying with
your sensory information.
For those of you
interested in the scientific process, the first informational usage
conceptually operates with what is called a bottom-up flow of information. Cellular and synaptic changes take place
within the organism and the information that accrues from this may gradually
become conscious in your own mind. That
is, the organic changes taking place within the brain can gradually result in
new information for your conscious mind that you can become aware of and
utilize.
The other
information flow is called top-down.
Here one uses information of which one is aware to direct further
sequences of action. (In actuality, the
process is “circular” and interactive.
Philosophers and scientists still argue about whether there really is
such a thing as top-down information that flows within humans.)
The Specific Instructions for the 5-Step REP Process
There are two
sets of instructions. We will call one
the Primary Instructions. This 5-step
REP process (using the Primary Instructions) should be used at least once a day
for people who are wrestling with rather severe negative emotions. For others, the use of this process three or
four times a week may be sufficient.
The Abbreviated Instructions are for use when there is no time to do all
of the steps required in the Primary Instructions, or when the situation one is
in at the time precludes use of the Primary Instruction. When using the Abbreviated Instructions, all
or any of the 5-steps can be used.
The access-codes
are the same in both the Primary Instructions and the Abbreviated
Instructions. One main purpose is to
allow you to represent information in a way that maximizes the accessing of
healing processes within yourself, and to represent your problems “to” these
processes in a way that maximally stimulates positive change. The second purpose is to recognize how you
have come to represent (conceptualize, define) both your assets and your
liabilities so you can upgrade all of them.
As you continually use REP, you will acquire information that will
permit you to spot what the strengths and weaknesses are in the ways you have
come to represent your world to yourself.
Remember, in human psychology nothing much has any real “meaning”
outside of how it is interpreted, (actually, “meaning” is the informational value that resides in the neural sequences in
which our experiences have been encoded).
While it is certainly true that we would all pretty much interpret a
lion eating a leg off generally in the same way, (not too good), there is huge
latitude in how we interpret the many ways life “treats us.” So too, with the ways we have built our assets. You may find, for example, that you have
left key defining ingredients out of such tremendously positive assets as
patience, courage and confidence. You
may have formed your assets in very limited ways, both consciously and
unconsciously. The 5-step process, in
both its Primary and Abbreviated forms, enables you to consistently upgrade the
manner in which you have represented your world and your assets to
yourself.
I side-step the
knotty issue of what it means to say that we are communicating with
ourselves. The self that is being communicated
to is actually part of the overall self that is doing the communicating. We can debate this interesting philosophical
issue in person. However, it is quite
obvious that the so called “mind” has a way of compartmentalizing various
functions so it makes sense to say that one aspect of the “self” communicates
with other aspects. The critical issue
really concerns the functions, limitations and complexities of how these
systems have been organized by evolution and, to some extent, experience. What we think of as “consciousness” and
“awareness” are actually not the same thing.
Each has different functions and degrees of complexity as opposed to
those processes that represent the Deep Inner Mind. The ability to de-connect and re-connect sequences of behavior
are different at each functional level, the processes representing the DIM
apparently having much greater internal flexibility than “awareness” or
“consciousness,” and with this, more ability to correct trauma-encoded learning
than is possible via the other routes, if they are conceptualized as unitary
functional elements.
Here is a
summary of the steps. As mentioned,
they are the same in both the Primary and Abbreviated Instructions.
The first step
allows you both to optimize neurologic growth-potential by switching in the use
of different representational systems, as well as affording a rather excellent
view of the way you are representing either your goals or your problems. Procedurally and detail-wise, Step 1 is the
same in both the Primary and Abbreviated Instructions. (The detailed instructions for Steps 2, 3
and 5 are different in the Primary and Abbreviated Instructions.) Examples of each of the steps will be given
shortly. Basically, Step 1 aims to
reveal how you have conceptualized or defined or imaged your problems and
goals. As mentioned, it will also
present these problems and goals to your DIM in a way that is best suited to
facilitate change. From a detail-perspective,
Step 1 will ask you to define in words, images, and any other sensory systems
you care to use, just how you have represented a goal or a problem. A problem may be something like anxiety or
depression. A goal may be to clean your
office or finish writing a paper you have stalled on. Whether you are dealing with a problem or goal, it is vastly
helpful to know how you have represented such a challenge to your own creative
processes.
Step 2 is an
access-code (an “access-code” is a way to access some desired internal state)
to create in you a willingness to be open and receptive to new thoughts, images
and feelings. This is the access-code:
2. “With
patience and courage, I can become open to receive new information.”
The purpose of
Step 3 is to make gradually available to your awareness and/or behavioral use
information stored or encoded or “remembered” in body feelings. These actions tendencies are usually aborted
but purposeful actions that were part of some sequence you were not able to
complete in the past, due to the circumstances you found yourself in. This could have been some kind of event that
caused psychological trauma. Trauma
limits the mental processes available for use.
For example, the memory system may operate as a single-shot “camera”
during a traumatic event, so the brain fails to register in any way that can be
remembered, all of the events that took place during the trauma. That is, it shifts from being a “moving
picture” camera to a one-shot-at-a-time camera, resulting in crucial omissions
in what is stored in available memory.
The purpose of Step 3 is not just to have you complete the aborted
action tendency, as some people who do motor-type therapies believe, but to
develop the skill to carry out a certain purposeful action that is probably still not in your current repertory. Here is the access-code for Step 3.
3. “With patience and courage, I can become
aware of feelings within my body and what they seek to accomplish.”
4. Step
4 must be demonstrated in person. It
uses only anatomic-skeletal and facial information to create a child’s sense of
wonder, delight, amusement, interest and surprise.
It is designed to create fresh perspectives, uncontaminated by the wishes, prohibitions and values that others have imposed upon you. There are no direct verbal statements or affirmations to be made here. In this step, which I will demonstrate in person, you should seek to create in your body and especially on your face, the attitudes called for.
The aim of step
5 is self-evident: to access a willingness to create new categories into which
your experiences can be put. Here is
the code for Step 5, the final step, (although when doing the REP 5-step
process iteratively, you may go from Step 5 right back to Step 1. Newly created information—information of
which you may lack awareness—will be fed right back into the REP iterative
system).
5. “With confidence, I can create new ways to
look at, think about, feel about and act upon my world.”
Certain
eye-movement patterns are to be used with steps 1, 2, 3 and 5, but not 4. Their purpose is to integrate left-brain right-brain processing, and to subject memories of which you may
be unaware to healing processes.
Now that the
healing access-codes have been detailed, we can list the third REP advantage
mentioned earlier. It follows from the
fact that not only do the mind/body states of patience, courage and confidence
help facilitate the emergence of information into awareness, but they then
infuse the newly emerging information, as well as the mind/body states that
encode the problem situation with which one is dealing, with aspects of their
own character. We refer to the
psychological assets yielded by patience, courage and confidence. Among other benefits, these assets allow a
person to ward-off impulsive, poorly thought-out actions, create a heightened
ability to deal with scary situations, and expand the ability to carry out
appropriately-reasoned risks.
THE PRIMARY INSTRUCTIONS
The main
strategy of REP is to present information to your DIM and your awareness by
switching back and forth among various ways of representing that information,
especially in regard to what I will call the key words and phrases.
These tend to be words or concepts that are encoded at a fairly high
level of abstraction, that is, may have no uniform definition to which everyone
might subscribe, but nevertheless are crucial in the internal communications
that take place within our personalities.
They would be especially important in regard to how we represent and
hence “live-out” our assets and liabilities. By “high” level of abstraction we
mean that although all of us could probably agree on what the word “patience”
means in general, or the word “courage” means, it is unlikely that deep within
ourselves we define these things in exactly the same ways. REP approach allows you to better realize exactly
what you, personally, mean by these terms.
(What you “mean,” at a biophysiological level, will reflect what kinds
of activity take place when your neural circuitry is activated by their usage.) The representations will further allow you
to see that you are probably defining these key words and what they access in limited ways. Hence you can upgrade the quality of your representations of each
key access-code every time you go through the REP process. You may also find ways to mitigate the
harshness or all-or-none ways you are probably defining your problems. You will see, for example, that the way I
define “patience,” (a key asset in most situations), may be very different from
the way you define it, and you will see how my definitions have been shaped and
limited, even distorted, by my own life experiences. As one notices limitations in one’s definitions of assets, or
finds evidence of black/white thinking in defining and hence creating
obstacles, one can continually upgrade and change the definitions and perhaps
the visual ways of representing them as well as other sensory ways of
representing them.
Let me now take
you through the Primary Instructions for the 5-step REP process. What follows is a highly personal way I
might read the instructions to myself, and the inner thinking I would do to
carry out the instructions. I will not
use quotation marks. When I want to
speak to you, the reader of these instructions, I will put these “aside”
remarks in parentheses. We begin with
Step 1, representing the problem or goal.
OK, I see that
the job is first to represent my problem or my goal in as many different
sensory representation systems as possible.
This means I will want to define the problem or goal in words, and then
create both a concrete image of the problem or goal and an abstract image
also. I may want to use other sensory
representations as well. (So you see,
then, that the first job is to represent the problem or goal in words, concrete
images and abstract images. Other
sensory representation systems may also be used if you can think of any that
seem to do the job. I am going to
assume in this demonstration that I am depressed. This will be what I will call a “problem.” I will also assume that I have a goal that I
am not sure how to tackle. I will offer
this illustration later, of how to use REP not just to mitigate “neuroses,” but
also to create upgraded solution strategies for any task or goals.)
OK, I’m
depressed. Now how would I define that
in words. I guess I will first describe
how it feels. I feel lonely. I feel sad.
I feel a little bit disconnected from life. I don’t seem to have the energy to do very much.
Wait a minute,
this is only telling how I feel. Maybe
I should also say what particularly makes depression a problem for me. I may find a clue as to something I am
perhaps trying to avoid. So let me now
try to define what makes this a problem for me, and not just reiterate how if
feels. I want to stay in bed and not
even get up. This might mean I want to
avoid doing the different jobs I have to do.
Some of my kids are having rough times right now. I guess hanging back would take me out of
any need to meet with them and try to help them. It’s not always clear how to help people that you would like to
help, especially people you love and care for.
Gee, this may also have to do with my patients because I feel a very
strong sense of obligation toward them.
(So now what I
have done is move from a mere description of what my problem feels like, to
considering what may make these feelings a special problem for me. Along these same lines, one of my patients
claimed that she was afraid to tackle the job of cleaning her house. The mere thought of cleaning it aroused
tremendous anxiety. I asked her to
define what made cleaning the house such a challenge or obstacle for her. The progression of the information she
revealed to both of us was indeed illuminating. She began by saying how cluttered the house was, how full of old
newspapers and magazines and even old food there was to contend with. Some of the books and magazines were from
her childhood. She went on describing
what the house was like. At a certain
point, I said: “What makes cleaning the house such a specific problem for
you?” In other words, in addition to
all the feelings and images cleaning the house creates in her (anxiety and
feelings of phobic avoidance), I asked her to list some things she would have
to face if she in fact did clean the
house. She went on to say: “Well, the
truth is I can’t stand to throw anything out.”
So now we saw that the problem was really not so much cleaning the
house. The problem was more the need to
part with things from her childhood.
Many of the items in the house reflected a very troubled childhood. Throwing them out apparently required her to
deal with a lot of unfinished psychological business between herself and her
parents.)
Now I’ve defined
what depression feels like and what makes it a problem for me. Let me now make an abstract image. I think I will picture myself looking very
sad and dejected. That is a concrete
image. I might see myself sitting very
still, unwilling to get out of a chair.
Now I need to make an abstract image.
An abstract image may be just one of a plain black field, denoting
“blackness.” I wonder if I can
represent this in any other system?
What about the kinesthetic? I
can just allow my head, shoulders and chest to sag and sink in. This is denoting the body feeling I get from
depression with my anatomic- muscle system.
At this point I
need to do the eye movements. (I will
demonstrate to you in person how to use the eye movements in this step and in
the others.) OK, now I’m going to move
into doing step 2. In step 2 my first
job will be to expand all of the key words and concepts in both words, concrete
and abstract images as well as other sensory systems if possible.
Now I’m reading
the second access code. I see that it
starts with the phrase, with patience.
Now what do I mean by patience?
This is what I mean by
patience. I will do things my way. I will not allow people to push me
around. I will not conform to the
immediate desires and needs of other people.
(You can see already how my definition of patience is a fairly
belligerent one, essentially saying that I will not allow people to push me
around, that I will do things my way.
This limited set of definitions, which creates a limited way to
experience “patience,” followed from my particular life experiences. When I first did this REP step, and could
see how my definitions were flavored by a defensive and belligerent “You’re not
going to push me around” attitude, I could immediately start to expand my
definitions to include attitudes more reflective of relaxation and
enjoyment.) Wait a minute, all of these
definitions are kind of aggressive.
Patience is also the ability to take things slowly and comfortably,
enjoying things as you go along.
(Hence, I expand my experience and ultimately, with repeated REP use, my
real-life creation of “patience.”)
The next job I
have is to represent patience to myself in images. Since I love the old west, I’m going to picture myself on a horse
ambling along a beautiful stream knowing that it will take me two days to get
to the town I’m heading for, but that’s just fine. (At this point I would make
that picture.) I also want to see
myself looking very relaxed.
Now I need a way
to represent patience with an abstract picture. I’ll just picture a straight line, slowly lengthening. Gee, some situations may be complicated and
require patience. I’ll picture those
interwoven DNA strands moving slowly along, and wrapping themselves into
complex patterns, but very slowly.
Can I think of
any other sensory ways to represent patience?
I can move my hand slowly along a line.
This would be a kinesthetic and proprioceptive representation.
Well, next I
have to expand on the key word courage.
What is courage to me? I’ll get
the job done no matter what. I’ll stick
with whatever task is in front of me regardless of how I feel. Even if I’m very scared inside or
intimidated I will stay-the-course and get the job done. (Following this, I would make pictures of
this.) The more you use all of these methods of representing key
concepts and phrases the more value you will get from the process.)
(Next, I want to
work with and expand the phrase or idea of being open to information. I will define it.) I will allow things into my body. I will allow even very boring people to speak to me and I will be
very open and ready to hear what they have to say. I will allow things in without reacting in my body even if they
are scary or intimidating or frightening.
(If this seems to represent “openness” in too “lenient” a way, you could
note you would make an exception for threats that require evasive body
reactions in the real world.) I will
now make pictorial representations of allowing things into my body, and being
patient even with boring speakers.
Gosh, I cannot think of an abstract image for being open to
information. Well, I can always
“default” to the position of making a picture of the concrete image I used, but
as though drawn by Picasso or Dali.
(Note that when
you create images, you may do so from two perspectives. From one perspective, it is as though you
are in the pictures, taking part in whatever is going on, as though you are
either viewing a home movie in which you are included, or a still photo in
which you are included. From the other
perspective, your image may be of some person, event or situation as you would
see it from within your own head.
Either type of image will serve the REP purpose.)
We are returning
now to an explanatory mode. So far, we
have expanded in words and images the key concepts and phrases in Step 2. At this point you would return and read to yourself
Step 2 in a more smooth fashion. “With
patience and courage I will be open to receive new information.” Following the smooth reading of the
sentence, you would now add the facial and anatomic skeletal information to the
message. You would set your face and
your facial muscles and your body to represent a person who is truly open and
ready to receive new information. You
hold this for at least thirty seconds and at that point you would do the eye
movements which I will have demonstrated in person.
With Step 3 the
key words or concepts again involve patience and courage, two problem-solving
states of enormous importance, physically and psychologically, and the idea of
what body feelings are trying to express or accomplish. So you would go through that step just as I
have explained for Step 2, and again define each key word in words and then in
concrete and abstract images. If you
can represent these words or concepts in other sensory systems, please do so. We can discuss in person how you could even
use touch, tastes or smells. Following
this, you would add the facial expressions and the eye movements.
Step 4 remains
exactly the same as it was in Motor Assisted Psychotherapy or MAP. I do not want you to use words or a
deliberate use of images in this step.
Do it by facial expressions only.
Step 5 would be
the same detail-wise as I have already described in reference to Steps 2 and 3.
Before saying a
bit more about the anatomic-skeletal/musculature systems used in Steps 2, 3, 4
and 5, we will offer some remarks on using the REP process for goals, as
distinct from problems. We will also
summarize the 5 steps. We begin with
the latter.
Summary of the 5-Steps in REP
1. The
purpose of Step 1 is to represent your problem or goal in as many different
sensory systems as you can think of.
Begin with words. Define
(describe, detail) the problem.
Following this, represent it in concrete and then abstract imagery. Following this, use any other sensory
systems that you believe can represent (symbolize, portray) the situation you are
trying to heal or make better.
Step 2 is as
follows: “With patience and courage, I can become open to receive new
information.”
Step 3 uses the
following access-code: “With patience and courage, I can become aware of
feelings within my body and what they seek to accomplish.”
Step 4 must be
demonstrated in person. It uses only
anatomic-skeletal and muscular information, particularly what the face is able
to provide, to create a child’s sense of wonder, delight, amusement, interest
and surprise.
Step 5 uses the
following access-code: “With confidence, I can create new ways to look at,
think about, feel about and act upon my world.”
Remember to use
the eye movements with Steps 1, 2, 3 and 5, but
not 4.
Using REP to Upgrade Goal-Attainment
Although the
distinction is probably superficial, when people speak to me about problems
they generally refer to situations in which they experience some form of
emotional distress, such as anxiety or depression or phobic avoidance. When speaking of attaining goals, wherein
they may feel only a little bit
daunted or intimidated or overwhelmed, that is, they experience fewer bad
feelings than with “problems,” they generally speak about goal attainment. While the “problem” aspect of anxiety and
depression may be more obvious (they “hurt”) than the problems encountered in
goal-attainment, the challenges are really the same in both situations: the
need to create added mind/body resources to upgrade critical response
opportunities. Basically, in each
situation the involved person would profit from having added skills, whether
they be used to deal with anxiety or depression patterns or getting a new job
or cleaning a cluttered office.
REP embraces a
philosophy that does not seek to get rid of things, even “depressions” or
“anxieties.” These dysphoric emotions
will organically disappear as a person learns more effective ranges of
strategies to deal with the life situations that cause the negative
emotions. The capacity to be depressed
or become anxious is built into our organisms.
These capacities will always be there.
There may be moments where it is very appropriate to have such attitudes
and/or feelings. For example, when a
loved one dies it would certainly be normal to be depressed. (However, it may not be normal to have to
continue being depressed for a greater length of time than is required for the
mourning process and other self-healing processes to run their course.) The same is somewhat true of anxiety only
here the field of psychology makes a distinction. The word “fearfulness” is used in psychology when a person is
scared, and there is a realistic situation in the external world toward which
it would be reasonable to experience fear.
Fearful feelings tend to disappear when the situation has either been
dealt with or has passed. Anxiety is a
term reserved for situations when there is really no rational reason to support
the duration or extent of the scared or anxious feelings. Regardless, when all is said and done,
anxiety actually springs from internal conflict. That is, a person cannot find a safe alternative to address some
critical issue in his or her life.
(Technically, the person cannot find a response that is free from a
push-pull ambivalence, resulting in no clear way for the person to choose among
the three basic alternatives: movement toward, movement away from, movement
against.) The solution to this is to
build more resources and options, so that the person caught in the
ambivalence-trap ends up with an extended range of ways to deal with the life
situations that are unconsciously causing the trap and hence the
anxieties. So even here, dealing with
anxiety, the underlying curative structure
consists of building an extended range of neural circuitry, which in
essence becomes an extended range of options in real-life behavior. The extended range of options become the
building blocks of the needed resources (attitudes, beliefs, range of courage,
“insights,” upgraded calmness in the face of trying situations and so forth),
allowing the person to choose among the available choices (toward, away from,
against).
Let me now
present an example of goal-attainment that involved finding a “best
solution.” I had need to move an
extremely large and heavy piece of furniture.
Since my children have moved out of our house, I needed to find some way
to do this within my own means, that is to make moving it a one-person
job. In the illustration of using REP
to address this goal, I will comment only on Step 1, since the use of the other
steps would be a similar to using REP for any other (therapeutic) purpose. Goal-attainments are often upgraded by the
use of Step 1 alone. I will again share
with you my inner thoughts as I used Step 1 of the REP process.
My job is to
move that heavy chair. Let me define
what my goal is. My goal is to move it
about two or three feet. So I guess I
have to find a way to lift the chair and move it. Let me think of a way one person can do this, since it is large,
heavy, and bulky. I need to define and
envision how I can get a grip on it and get it up into the air. I can’t just push it, since a large shag rug
is under it. Let me switch to imagery
for a moment. (At this point I began
making multiple images of how I could pick this chair up and move it. I also considered the use of a dolly. As I made various images, even abstract
ones, the critical insight occurred. I
will explain it first in words.) Wait a
minute, I don’t really have to lift it.
Maybe there is some way to roll it.
(At that point I could visualize how it could be rolled on its circular
base. Since the base was a circle, the
actual point of contact between any point on the base and the rug would be less
than one-half inch. Hence, tilting it
and rolling it on the base allowed the chair to be moved in a rather effortless
sort of way since it was being rolled and not lifted, which not only
distributed its weight differently than would be the case in lifting it
straight up, but also because there was such little contact between any given
point on the base and the rug no friction was generated. I am, of course, mindful that most
mechanically-inclined people would have seen this solution immediately, with no
need to do the 5-step REP process.
[Such people are in fact already doing at least some visual
multiple-perspective-taking “naturally,” without conscious effort.] But I am not “mechanically-inclined” and
usually need physical as well as conceptual help to change lightbulbs. REP has definitely upgraded my skills in
this area.)
Here is another
example of upgrading goal attainment. I
found myself stalling on finishing an article that a journal was to
publish. Here were my thoughts.
I am putting off
writing this article. This editor has
given me somewhat of a hard time. I
think I am a little bit afraid about having it rejected or having more
confrontations with him. Nevertheless,
I want to get it done. I’ll picture
myself sitting at the desk doing nothing, as a concrete representation of the
problem. I can picture a stalled car as
another concrete image of failing to get proper movement. As an abstract image, I can picture a moving
kaleidoscope that suddenly freezes in one place. I can feel my facial muscles getting annoyed and angry in having
to deal with an editor who seems not to understand our statistics. (At this point, the critical insight
occurred. I realized that I, myself,
did not understand the statistics as well as I thought I did. Hence, to “unstall” myself it was necessary
to go back and do far more reading and consultation on the use of a rather
complex and seldom-used statistic.)
In general, when
dealing with the attainment of any goal, first state the mission or the purpose
or the goal as many different ways as is possible. In the example I have just given, it might be to write a paper,
complete a paper, share ideas and so forth.
The more different ways you define a goal the more ways you are likely
to think of to address the goal.
Further, you will discover critical areas of the mission that are not
being dealt with or understood as well as other areas. For example, many years ago I avoided
working on a particular book that I was writing on underachievement. Using some procedures that would eventually
be incorporated in REP, I went through a process in which I attempted to bring
to awareness what the problem was. It
took several days to get “unstuck,” since I had not yet come up with a
time-saving, “eliminate-the-fat” procedure like REP. I eventually realized that I was not clear on what I wanted to
accomplish with the book. For example,
I was unclear as to whether I wanted to write it for a professional audience or
a lay audience. I was unclear on what
my message was to be, especially the extent and the depth in which I would
cover the points that were involved (in this case, underachievement
patterns). Had this problem occurred
nowadays, I could use the sort of free-associative REP first step to create
multiple thoughts and visions and perspectives from which to view the
attainment of my goal. REP will create
many strategies to use in goal-attainments, and do so rather quickly as
compared to other methods that have the same aim.
Anatomic-Skeletal/Muscular Representations
Just as the eyes
and ears send information to the DIM, so too do the bones and the muscles. REP capitalizes on the fact that from an
evolutionary perspective the influence of information carried over these
representational systems (they are functioning as sensory systems) is likely
more powerful than verbal and even visual information. “Motor information” seems to have developed
far earlier in evolution than did other information-carrying systems. And always keep in mind that these systems
are sending information to an interpretive-evaluative-emotional system that,
right off the bat, very quickly puts information into only two categories: safe
or dangerous. If your facial muscles
are contorted or grimacing in anger or annoyance, the message to the DIM is not
just that you are annoyed or chagrined, but that you are in danger. The body will respond accordingly. Hence we must be very careful about the
types of information we are unwittingly sending with these systems.
In Steps 2, 3, 4
and 5 the musculature and the skeleton are used to create certain types of
information to be sent to the DIM. The
blend of attitudes called for are expressed in the access-codes. For example, in Step 2, you are putting your
anatomic-skeletal system and facial muscles as they would be if you were
experiencing patience, courage and were open to information. From a practical standpoint, it is best to
do this by imagining yourself in two different roles. One is as a movie director on a silent film set. The other is as an actor. As you read the access-codes to yourself,
you are in director mode. Make sure you
read the sentences slowly and carefully so that when you are behaving as an
actor, the “you” who will manifest these motor blends of attitudes in your
face, you understand what is being called for.
(You should use as much of your body as is possible to represent the
attitudes called for in the access-codes, but the facial muscles are of primary
importance.)
There are
basically two different practical ways to “call up” the desired attitude. First, you might want to remember an actual
situation in which you experienced any of these attitudes, for example,
patience, courage or openness to information.
Vividly recall these actual situations in every sensory system. That is, remember what, in these situations,
you were seeing, hearing, possibly smelling, as well as any kind of feeling within
your body. As you make these vivid
recollections, pay attention to your facial expressions. You may only pick up suggestive hints. Use them to guide the development of the
required attitudes. This is what is
called using a real-life access-code to enhance the attainment of the attitudes
called for.
If you cannot do
this, simply imagine yourself as an actor on a silent movie set, where without
the benefit of a mirror, you will try to mobilize the anatomic-skeletal and
muscular actions called for. Pay
particular attention to your facial muscles.
There is no way
to do this incorrectly. You may just
simply not get the same results as if you were making a more direct hit on the
attitudes called for.
The most
frequent question asked of me is does it matter what you are thinking about
when you are using your facial muscles and other muscles. The answer is it does not matter, but on the
other hand, you should really be concentrating on attaining the right “look”
for the silent film camera.
THE ABBREVIATED INSTRUCTIONS
REP procedures
are designed to be used in the sequence in which they are listed. Following, is the psychological reasons for
this particular sequence.
Step 1 requires
defining the problem or the goal. Once
you have “fed into” the DIM in the most optimal way possible that to which you
are seeking a solution, it then follows logically that the next step should be
one that instructs the DIM to be open to new information. Hence, the phrasing for Step 2 involves
being open to new information.
Step 3 instructs
the DIM to be willing to accept information that may be stored, so to speak,
within the body in a way where words may not be readily available to represent
what this information happens to be.
Step 4, the child sense of wonder, amusement, delight, surprise and
interest, is designed to enable the user of REP to return as much as is humanly
possible to do so, to a preverbal mode of functioning. This would be a time in one’s life in which
that person would be maximally open to fresh and new perspectives,
uncontaminated by either the tendency to quickly throw information into
word-bound categories or to be overly influenced by the suggestions of
others. Step 5 instructs the user of
REP to be willing to use new information in ways that lead to an expanded range
of options for seeing, explaining, feeling and acting on the world.
Further, REP
should be used iteratively in “tough” cases.
In other words, here, one is going through the 5 steps and immediately
returning to Step 1 and doing all five once again. This, so to speak, feeds the new but still unconscious
information generated by the use of the 5 steps back through the same
system.
However, any
single step can be used alone. This is
especially useful in real-life situations where there simply is not time to do
all five of the steps. Further, there
may be other people around. We often
find ourselves in situations where it would look, to put it mildly, a bit wacky
to sit and do these 5 steps, especially the facial expression part of the
process.
Hence, any
single step can be used alone. Further,
any number of the steps may be combined.
For example, Steps 2 and 5 are often good ones to use in stressful
situations. Step 2 accesses the healing
states of patience, courage and openness, and then Step 5 facilitates the
confidence to use them in some immediate situation.
One can also
invent one’s own 1-step processes. This
may be something as simple as calmness, or patience or courage. One can do this by using the body and the
facial muscles. One can also use
attitudinal/emotional blends as a 1-step process. For example, when I am in court being interrogated by a very
aggressive attorney, I will often use the access-codes of alertness, creativity
and emotional neutrality. In other words,
I do not want to be sucked into responding either to the sarcasm or the
intimidation usually meted out by a cross-examining attorney. However, I do want to be alert, creative and
neither angry nor warm. Hence,
“emotional neutrality” is a very excellent SOA with which to deal with
aggressive, or stressful situations where it will not pay for one to go into a
rage, passivity or a fight-flight reaction or paralysis. In other words, you want to avoid angry
sarcasm or the fearful feeling of being intimidated and wanting to
retreat.
So we see that
even parts of a single step can be
used. In real-life situations, one
would typically capitalize on the ability of the facial muscles and the vocal
muscles to call up the attitudes desired.
This can be done in a very covert manner where others around you will
not readily be able to see exactly what you are doing. Knowing that you are not going to be
criticized or judged by others should make it easier to do these things in
public situations.
THE POWER OF THE PRIMARY INSTRUCTIONS
Whenever
possible, use the Primary rather than the Abbreviated Instructions. Further, it is best to use REP when you are actively seeking to solve a problem or
address some emotional pain. I will
explain, in person, why this is so. Basically, in using REP, one is seeking to attach new and more
resourceful options to states-of-arousal (SOAs) that, at the moment, yield very
limited perceptions and options. The
surest way to attach new options to any option-limited SOA, is to mobilize the
new resources while the option-limited SOA is operating. This presents a seeming dilemma. If the best time to use REP is when an
option-limited SOA is active, and this happens to occur during some real-life
situation in which it would be awkward (or there is no time) to do all 5 steps,
what is one to do?
Simulating an Option-Limited SOA
The answer is to simulate (access, reconstruct) the restricted SOA in your body/mind at some point in time when it is convenient to follow the Primary Instructions.
The best way to simulate a mind/body state is to vividly remember (re-live), in every sense channel available, what was going on during the situation to be simulated. Recall all of the sights, sounds, thoughts, kinesthesias, proprioceptions (as well as smells and tastes) and so forth, that accompanied the event or situation. For example, suppose you are a college student and some professor criticized you in class, and you experienced keen embarrassment. Days go by and you cannot dispel the bad feelings. Since there was no time, or you either did not know the feelings would last or doing REP would have been awkward at the critical moment, REP was not used. So you now decide to simulate the event and initiate the healing process. To simulate the event, you would vividly picture the teacher, the classroom, other students who were part of your mental imagery at the time, as well as the sound of the words, the “feeling” of the chair you sat on, the smell of the classroom plus any other sensory information you can muster. When you have done this, whether or not you are convinced you have achieved a “good” simulation, proceed to follow the REP Primary Instructions.